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The Fight to Be Buried on Country: Prue Vines on Wills, Death and Family

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10th September 2026

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Did you know that around sixty percent of burial disputes that end up in Australian courts involve an Aboriginal person, and that appointing an executor can be the one thing that prevents it?

 

In this episode, I'm speaking with Professor Prue Vines, a leading Australian legal academic at the Faculty of Law, UNSW Sydney, where she has taught since 1990. Prue is co-author, with Rosalind Croucher, of the country's leading succession law textbook, Succession: Families, Property and Death, and sole author of Law and Justice in Australia. She is also the author of the Aboriginal Wills Handbook, and her research sits right at the intersection of law and death, with a particular and long standing focus on developing culturally appropriate wills for Indigenous Australians and on the burial rights disputes that so often follow when that planning hasn't happened.

 

Prue and I talk about why succession law can feel so harsh when emotion meets property, and why a will should really be thought of as part of planning for the people you leave behind, not just a piece of paper about money. She walks me through what a will actually does, including the part most people never think about: appointing an executor who has the legal right to decide what happens to your body. We get into the risks of DIY wills, how to choose an executor you can truly trust, and what the probate and intestacy process actually looks like when someone dies with or without a will.

 

A large part of our conversation is dedicated to Prue's decades of work with Aboriginal communities across Australia, developing wills that actually reflect how kinship, family and obligation work in those communities rather than imposing a Western template. She explains how appointing an executor became the single most important reason many Aboriginal elders chose to make a will in the first place, because it settles who has the right to decide what happens to a person's body. We go deep on burial rights: why disputes over where someone is laid to rest disproportionately involve Aboriginal Australians, what dispossession has done to people's ability to be buried on country, the different ways communities have adapted, from smoking ceremonies to carrying home a handful of earth, and the real court cases Prue has seen where a missing will meant a family was torn apart over a burial decision that should never have needed a judge.

 

Prue closes by making the case for enduring power of attorney and guardianship alongside a will, and pushes back on the idea that will disputes are becoming more common than they really are.

 

Remember; you may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

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Professor Prue Vines

Australian Legal Academic at the Faculty of Law, UNSW Sydney

Professor Prue Vines is a leading Australian legal academic at the Faculty of Law, UNSW Sydney, where she has taught since 1990. Her research sits right at the intersection of law and death: she is co-author, with Rosalind Croucher, of the country's leading succession law textbook, Succession: Families, Property and Death, now in its sixth edition, and is the sole author of Law and Justice in Australia. Prue's work looks closely at how succession law — wills, inheritance and estates —
actually plays out for the people affected by it, with a particular focus on developing culturally appropriate wills for Indigenous Australians. She also researches apologies and responsibility in civil liability, examining what it means when the law gets involved in acknowledging harm. Prue is a Fellow of the Australian Academy of Law, co-Director of the Private Law Research and Policy Group at UNSW, and has held a visiƟng professorship at Strathclyde University Law School in Glasgow.
She's spent decades helping law students — and the public — understand the sometimes surprising, sometimes unjust ways the legal system handles death, property and family.

Summary

What you'll hear in this episode:

  • Why succession law can feel harsh, and why Prue sees a will as emotional planning, not just a legal document
  • What a will actually does, including the part most people overlook: appointing an executor with the right to deal with your body after death
  • Why some things, like the music in your Spotify account, can't be passed on by will at all
  • The risks of writing your own will, and when it's worth paying a solicitor to get it right
  • How to choose a trustworthy executor, and why Prue says you're never handing anyone as much power
  • What actually happens, step by step, between a death and the granting of probate, and when probate isn't needed at all
  • Why your superannuation usually isn't part of your estate, and what a binding death benefit nomination means for your family
  • What makes a will culturally appropriate for Indigenous Australians, from kinship obligations that extend who counts as family, to keeping customary law and secret business private
  • Why appointing an executor became the number one reason many Aboriginal elders told Prue they wanted a will, because it settles who has the right to decide what happens to their body
  • Why around sixty percent of burial disputes that reach Australian courts involve an Aboriginal person, and what that says about the importance of sorry business
  • How dispossession has complicated the right to be buried on country, and the different ways communities have adapted, from smoking ceremonies to bringing home a handful of earth
  • A real burial dispute Prue has seen play out in court, and how a will and a trusted executor could have prevented it entirely
  • Why Prue believes will challenges aren't actually on the rise, and what the real dispute rate looks like
Transcript

Digital Assets You Dont Own Prue Vines: maybe the music you have on Spotify that you think of as your music, but you don't own it because Spotify owns it, and you can't pass that on by will. If you really want to pass music on, you need to go out and buy a CD or buy a vinyl record or an old cassette so that you have the materiality of it that you can pass on to somebody else. Prue Vines: Many of these women elders would say to me, "Could you make me a will now?" So they had gone from white fella wills are nothing to do with me to this is a way that I can actually stop having to worry about t ... Read More

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