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In this episode, I chat with Luke Roberts of Mornington Green Legacy Gardens, a unique final resting place that's revolutionising how we approach death and remembrance. Imagine a lush, 34-acre property that feels more like a botanical garden than a cemetery. That's Mornington Green - a place where loved ones' ashes are infused into the roots of trees, creating living memorials that grow and change with the seasons.
Luke, a former lawyer, shares how his brother's experience with grief led to the creation of Mornington Green. The concept is simple yet profound: instead of traditional burial plots or urns, families choose a tree where their loved one's ashes will be placed. The ashes undergo a special organic treatment process, transforming them from potentially harmful to beneficial for the tree's growth. It's a beautiful cycle of life, where human remains quite literally give new life to nature.
What sets Mornington Green apart isn't just its innovative approach to memorialisation. It's the entire experience they've created around death and remembrance. From the variety of trees available (including jacarandas, oak trees, and flowering gums) to the thoughtful ceremony where families can participate in placing the ashes, every detail is designed to make the process more meaningful and healing. They even host regular events like planting days and Christmas in July, encouraging visitors to create positive, living memories in a place traditionally associated with loss.
Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.
Take care,
Catherine
Show notes
Guest Bio
Co-Founder & CEO of Mornington Green Legacy Gardens
In my previous life I was a lawyer, I studied quite a bit with 3 degrees including my masters in International Law which I gained while living abroad in Shanghai and Hong Kong.
I worked in corporate law for around 5 years, but it was never a passion for me.
When my brother Warren told me about his idea to bring the ritual of remembrance back into nature I loved the idea, and once the science had been proven I came and joined him in his quest.
At first, I was passionate about giving back to the planet and showing my boys that we need to act if we want change in the world… But it didn’t take long for me to realise what a tremendous gift it is to be trusted with such a personal and important part of peoples lives – and now this commitment to provide the very best experience possible now and into the future is a true passion that I live every day.
Summary
Key points from our discussion:
- Mornington Green offers a range of trees for memorialisation, from individual trees to those that can accommodate up to eight people's ashes.
- The ashes undergo a special organic treatment process to make them beneficial for tree growth.
- Families can participate in a meaningful ceremony to place their loved one's ashes, including writing a final note on biodegradable paper.
- Mornington Green hosts regular community events to create positive experiences and memories.
- They're expanding to other states in Australia to meet growing demand.
- A volunteer gardening group is being established to provide purpose and community for elderly clients.
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It doesn't remind them of the end, it reminds them of the lives that they shared
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I don't want them to come. They don't have a good time and it's sad and it's kind of scary.
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This is a place where kids love to come to.
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Welcome to Don't Be Caught Dead, a podcast encouraging open conversations about
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dying and the death of a loved one.
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I'm your host, Catherine Ashton, founder of Critical Info, and I'm helping to
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bring your stories of death back to life.
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Because while you may not be ready to die, at least you can be prepared.
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Don't Be Caught Dead acknowledges the lands of the Kulin Nations and recognises
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Today I'm speaking with Luke Roberts of Mornington Green.
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He was a lawyer in his previous life and he did a Masters, he studied overseas.
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he's from the peninsula and i'm
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really intrigued to hear his
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story because i actually did more in about a
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week and a half ago and i'm absolutely fascinated with
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the work that you're doing so i won't
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introduce luke anymore i'll let you tell his
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own story thank you so much for
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being with us luke uh thank you catherine it's great
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to you know have this opportunity to chat with you you
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know I've seen what you're doing I think it's really fantastic like
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you said I lived in a whole nother world before this but since getting into
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this world it really is a tremendous privilege to be able to play a role in
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such a pivotal human experience and you know death in my view creates the value
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of life you know it's such an important Without death,
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nothing else has meaning, you know, it really does give meaning to life.
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But the event of a death of somebody that you love has the potential to make
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people implode or to facilitate expansion, if you will.
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step up and take advantage of this life left behind and to honor the memory
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and the impact that that person's had on their lives by living properly,
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you know, and with vitality.
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is when people don't make arrangements.
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put their wishes down on paper,
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get it known, be known, because it's so easy to just keep kicking the stone
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down the track, keep kicking it down. But at any point, you're too late.
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At any point, you could be too late and then you've missed out on the opportunity.
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left behind from having to deal with admin and the financial and the emotional
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burden, having to consider everybody else's opinion.
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just throw me in the bin. Who cares?
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You know, but it's so important that for us that we honor those people's lives
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and we want to do it in the perfect way because they had such a big impact on us, you know.
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death and not wanting to talk about it but it
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is going to happen for every one of us and you can
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do it well you know you can do it in a way that doesn't
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screw everybody up so anyway my story yeah I was a lawyer I enjoyed it it was
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a you know good career path it was what I always sort of wanted to do well what
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my first son and i was
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very aware of the environmental damage
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that we as humans were doing and wanting to make
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a change but you gotta walk the walk right you want
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to tell your kids how you can make the change that you want in
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the world and then sit back and pretend as
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if it's not happening no you got to do something about so i was looking around
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like sort of sustainable energy jobs things like
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that and this time my brother who's always been very creative
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and always had very out-of-box ideas he'd been
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talking about this idea of you know people really
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need to be in nature when they're dealing with grief nature is
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the ultimate unifier of all of us
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you know we know this intuitively but now science has
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shown it that spending time in nature helps
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deal with depression anxiety and obviously
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also with grief you know so this is the way to do
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it and unfortunately you know for him it actually the aha moment came through
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tragedy you know one of his best friends who is a beautiful woman young girl
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she died tragically and very unexpectedly and he had i think the same experience
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that you would find a lot of young men where he's like, oh,
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yeah, it happened and kind of didn't have a, well, as far as he's concerned
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royal melbourne botanical gardens because he worked like just across
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the road and he noticed pretty
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quickly that he just felt good in the gardens and he's feeling better
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nature's making me feel better and i'm not in this weird yucky
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state and then one day he broke
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give him the vulnerability to process the emotions that he
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for me it's like this is how people should be doing it
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we need to be in nature shower nature and that's going to help people deal with
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that process and be open-hearted to be able to face that very very difficult
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grief and to process it so it luckily he'd spent so much time there that he
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got to know Tim Entelweiss that runs the Royal Melbourne Botanical Gardens.
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ashes. And he said, look, great idea, but it's not going to work.
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Everything's going to die because of, you know, the problems with the ash profile.
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Here's a few labs you can go to that might be able to help you deal with the
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pathology and deal with the problems with the ash so it can become a neutral
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or positive impact on the trees rather than being a problem.
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Fast for 18 months and this lab
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all of the trees with ashes to actually having not just
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okay results you know but they were better than the test sample so the treated
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ashes were now actually providing stronger growth in trees and that was the
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time when I was looking and I said hey you know what this seems like a real
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thing I'm going to come and join you so that was about seven years ago.
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Wow and that must have been when Tim really first
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started at the gardens too i'm not sure i'm not
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sure but um yeah i was there
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for 13 years so um that would have
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then okay well i mean and you would have probably seen warren a few times walking
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around the gardens like a weirdo i know you know pretty similar and like we're
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very different a lot of ways but we both like to be barefoot so i guarantee
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you'd have been barefoot walking around the gardens oh that's amazing So,
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yeah, I probably would have seen him.
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I used to work between Melbourne and Cranbourne.
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Yeah. So, tell me, you left...
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what you were going to do when Warren had this idea?
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in-house legal role for a while and I was just looking for a change.
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this seems like the right time in my life to take a real punt and do something
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that I think I can give everything to that's going to give me that.
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Something I'm passionate about, right?
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of learning and a lot of difficulties, but, you know, and I find pride a difficult emotion to have.
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spending time together with the kids, I just know that, you know,
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we've actually managed to do something really important And I do feel moments
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of pride with that. It's fantastic, you know.
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for people in such a raw and vulnerable time of need, it's so beautiful.
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That's the real bit that drives me now obviously i love
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under the place we got swans that call this place home
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months of the year it's fantastic i love
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here as well so it's you know all a part of the story but it's
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great you know we extract honey every once in a while and just give it to the
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clients as a nice little thank you it's fantastic i love it and tell me luke
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for someone who's unfamiliar with what mornington green is and what your point
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of difference is perhaps you can explain what makes mornington green unique as a.
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Is it a resting place yeah it's a it's a final resting
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place you know i was thinking about it the other day i was talking to somebody and
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look i'm not religious you know not an atheist
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what it is it's a final resting place that
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doesn't feel look like a cemetery it's growing
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a lot of really sad stories and one
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and having a tree for you know let's say you've lost a child it's
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this moment of beautiful color that comes into
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a very dark and sad part of your life and
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unlike having the ashes in an urn or
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in a cemetery or in a you know burial plot it's a full stop that's just done
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and that's there this is a growing tree and you can come through the seasons
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you see it grow and you can see it have a difficult time you can see it then
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flowering and becoming robust it's a big difference and it gives family a ongoing connection,
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you know and for so many people I think that's the biggest point of difference
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is when you come in here and I'm guessing you would have noticed I'll just ask
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you did it feel like a cemetery when you came through the gates? No.
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You know, on a very practical level, it is a final rest in place. We take cremated ashes.
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roots would evade it and the trees would very likely die.
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shifts the composition of the ash so that that harmful profile is
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mitigated and all of the beautiful trace elements that
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phosphorus they will all actually feed into the.
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your loved ones you know from those remains which i think not a
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full stop it's a continuation of a cycle so you
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know to give a comparison you would say look this is a
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forest version of a cemetery where families
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don't go to a grave plot and a tombstone they
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go to a tree a family tree that can be shared amongst family
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for generations where they're all part of the same
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tree and the feeling and experience is the
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differentiator the feeling when you come in you're not hit by
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you're embraced by this beautiful feeling
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of forest and garden and nature and growth
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and what we hear from clients is it doesn't remind them of
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the end it reminds them of the life that
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they shared and they get to you know
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have that very significant difference you know and it's
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a place that people are happy to bring their kids to you know
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often people say i don't bring my kids to pop's
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grave sucks i don't want them to come they don't
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have a good time and it's sad and it's kind of scary this
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is a place where kids love to come to and when you know i'll tell
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you some stories but you know one of the saddest ones but
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also beautiful was a mom with her daughter she said well so mom am i still going.
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To be able to hug you once you're gone and say yeah you can hug the tree you
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know and the picture of somebody hugging a tree that's living and growing versus
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of the picture of a child hugging a tombstone, they're very different.
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And they're different because they have a different feeling and a different energy.
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So the fundamental difference is having a place where memories continue.
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even if you're in a cemetery, if the family isn't likely to enjoy that experience,
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you're likely to be forgotten.
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love to visit we ensure that memory continues
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you know that that memory of life and people sit there and laugh
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and tell jokes and enjoy each other's company on a nice sunny day and it's i
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think that's crucial i think continuing the family story and having a place
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where we can embrace the richness of our family and the beautiful lives that
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we shared and the memories, I think it's really crucial.
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So, that's the fundamental difference. It's a place that resonates with everybody.
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we are all part of nature and everybody feels comfortable in nature.
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So, yeah, that's it in a nutshell. And tell me, Luke, what sort of numbers,
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we know statistically that maybe only half the population have even written a will.
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It's actually a little bit less than half.
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a tree that they're coming to you to pre-plan their funeral? Yeah.
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So, look, one of our goals is to shift that, right? Because we know,
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as you said, most people are not planning ahead, right?
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are just scared to talk about it or face their mortality.
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bigger factor is the options just don't sound
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attractive you know and i think when you go okay so what am i going to go do
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pick a casket pick the handles on the casket pick a nice urn somewhere you know
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they're just very unattractive options that don't seem like something you want
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to do you go whatever i don't care if that's the options i don't care just leave
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it you can decide but if you've got an option they go oh yeah,
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Yes, I want to go find a tree.
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It's a nice experience and it's something that we know that we've got about
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75% to 80% of our clients are pre-planning, the vast majority of them.
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That's a huge figure. Yeah, it's huge.
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And it's unexpected. But for them, they know that they have a tree.
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They'll come out regularly and they'll bring their kids. and what
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it means is that they've got positive living memories
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in this space so when the time does come it's going
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to be one of the worst days of that kid's life of
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your children's life when you do die they're coming
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into a place that is warm that they have nice positive
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memories it's not this alien place that you only
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ever visit on a horrible day it's a place that's really
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lovely and it's nurturing and comfortable that is
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such a big gift to give to people so for us i
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think when people do hear about us and they
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start to understand this process of oh no you're not picking a castle you're
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going for a walk around these gardens finding a tree that really speaks to you
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it's quite a lovely experience it's a nice way to spend your day you know even
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if you don't get a tree it's a pretty nice way to spend your day walking around
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the gardens having a coffee and enjoying you know watching flowering trees it's
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not the worst thing in the world so,
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i think we are able to have an impact there which i think is really important
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so if we can try to shift that needle and get more people pre-planning and getting their ducks in a line.
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I think that would be a fantastic result i think we're going to
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find that that will hold families together and
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bind them together at the most fundamental time of need
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you know i think in having the ability to
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just be with each other emotionally and hold that space is
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so important trying to deal with contracts and
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what are the different options and you know and going to different
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providers and then trying to get auntie and uncle to
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agree not conducive to that
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healing process and being together so yeah we're doing
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something right and i think the more that we
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can make this process attractive the more
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we're going to find that people actually are bold enough to take those steps
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and that big act of love of planning ahead
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i mean you're doing a similar thing right with the 10-15 right
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the point is is it you've got to make it
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something that people go okay i don't need
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to put it on a back burner anymore it's easy enough right
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and so for you it's more of
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a hey stop ignoring us it's 15 minutes you can do it
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i promise you 15 minutes is doable it's not a five hour session with your lawyer
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you can just knock this out really quickly and bit by bit we'll get through
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it for us it's like hey this doesn't have to be a horrible morose sad thing
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you can be actually have a really lovely day and find a tree and it's actually.
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In the end way cheaper than the old process and
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really moved away from full services and
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you know there's far less you know religious people out there but then the other
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thing is i don't think it's the money problem people don't mind spending money
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on something so important but that needs to rest you don't want to spend ten
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thousand fifteen thousand dollars which is the you know it's typically about
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five thousand dollars excluding a final resting place And then you add that on,
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it's another six to 12 grand for, you know, pretty standard options.
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that doesn't make them feel connected, that the family doesn't hold on to,
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doesn't help them with the grief.
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you know, whether it's right for them or not, that's up to them.
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is the fact that you're not having people plant a tree in memoriam.
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landscape that has been designed by a landscape architect.
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and starting to show signs of, you know, changes of the seasons and flowerings.
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that you can choose something that is living I
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suppose I can see why people want to connect to
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that yeah and it's and I mean look I think you've hit
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the nail on that we haven't skimped on any point
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of the process you know as you said the trees are
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all planted in groves Andrea's you
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know followed the best practice standards for forest type.
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Planting the aim is so you know instead of
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was in summer so you've got a jacaranda tree for it
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because it's beautiful purple flowers it's a beautiful experience
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to go see her tree as all these purple flowers are
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but the way they're planted and grows we've got
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all together so you're not just visiting mum's tree
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in full flower you're visiting the tree amongst a full
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forest of them all in flower and they're
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mature the canopies will touch and so you're going
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to have this massive canopies purple flowers
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of that to open up your heart like we were talking about.
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come on a sad day to go visit mum's tree and
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then just be overwhelmed with this opulent beauty what
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a reminder of the gift it is to be alive so you
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know and everything has been placed and designed
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of different parts of the land sun exposure wind
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exposure she's been you know andrew's fantastic you
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know she knows what she's doing so yeah and i
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think it is helpful for people to come out and know
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that the tree they're picking is something that is already doing
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well you know the first three years of trees are tough and
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generally it's a sliding scale as you would know right the
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highest risk is here and it drops down like this and then plateaus so you know
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most of the trees that people are choosing now have been in the ground for three
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years now so they're kind of past that point of great concern and people can.
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Rest assured that the trees are going to be pretty likely to be there in the next 40 50 100 years.
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I mean, some of the trees we have here, those Queensland cowries can live for
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a thousand years, which is pretty cool.
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And I'm going to come back and ask you about the different types of trees people can choose from.
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But just bearing in mind that.
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Melbourne weather, lots of trees fall. What happens when there is that situation
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where either a tree falls or I'm assuming there's a process that you have in place about that?
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Yeah, look, it's a very, very clear question to ask. We've just had that,
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right? We've just had a week of ridiculous winds.
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I mean, they must have been record winds. I can't remember ever
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having so many days crazy win like that
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and we did lose two trees in it when
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i say lose damage enough that you say listen i
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think we're better off to replace now there's one
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of the trees has had you know
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ashes memorialized in it and the other one did not so the
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one without the ashes is pretty simple we replace the
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tree we just inform the client we say look here's the photos of
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the damage we've replaced the tree and it's for
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free we replace them for free we don't charge for the replacement of
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trees when it's got ashes we
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will always inform the client before we do anything so
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we let them know of the damage we will let them know of
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the course that we're going to take and why if there's options
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we will give options to the client and say look you know
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sometimes you'll have a damage that we think
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the tree can get over you know and so they will cut
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back and say listen you might lose a leader say for
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example but there's a strong chance that you're going to get a new leader
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and we'll say look if you want to we can continue on
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with this tree or remove the tree and if
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we do remove the tree as long as the tree hasn't died from disease right
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if it's disease we have to remove it but as long as it hasn't died from disease
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we'll mulch that tree and use the mulch for the new tree that goes in so we
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still have that energy staying within the system within that tree within the
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area and i mean on that point it takes generally about seven years for a set
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of ashes to be holistically absorbed by a tree's roots.
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So you have quite a period there where if you put in a new tree,
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they're still going to be absorbing the roots.
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But it still seems to be, even though, because we all know, well,
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I'm certainly aware of...
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You know, arboricultural issues with trees as they age, etc.
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But it sounds like the process that you have in place is that it's still part
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of that system of returning back to nature and providing new life for new trees,
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new plants, even as mulch to actually enter that whole circular ecosystem.
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A hundred percent. Yeah, a hundred percent. I mean, you know,
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we're pretty fixated on a few things.
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You know, one of them is that cycle of life and ensuring that that
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memory is honored within the space and you know
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acting with integrity and ensuring that you know legacies
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do live on and that connection lives on yeah we're
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pretty paranoid and persistent about a few things but that's
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one of them and tell me luke what are the varieties
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or the species that people can choose well you've got a lot let me see if i
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can rattle them off in my head uh we've got you know golden wattles it's okay
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i don't know those so i can't test you yeah yeah i might miss some so see I'll
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start off in a, well, I think it's a bit of an order. We've got golden wattle.
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We've got red buds, you know, the Judas trees.
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Don't ask me the botanical names. I'll mess it up.
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They're quite cool, the red buds. Pink crepe myrtles, purple crepe myrtles, white crepe myrtles.
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We've got cherry blossoms, flowering apples, snow pears, ginkos.
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Then we've got carimbia fissifolias, the red flowering gums.
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We've got pink flowering yellow gums.
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You know, the sort of classic white flowering magnolias, but then we've also
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got the tulip magnolias with the purple flowers.
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We've got jacarandas, illawarra flame trees, oak trees, trident maples, liquid ambers.
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I think we've run the gambit now and Queensland cowries.
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That is such a variety. And when I'm hearing you reel it off,
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I'm thinking, there are a lot of trees. How much space do you have, Luke?
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It's a lot of trees. Well, look, we have about 34 acres. So we've got plenty of space.
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We've got probably another 20 years of space left here.
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Yeah, it's a beautiful, beautiful property. I mean, being in the next golf course,
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you said when you came in, it felt like a golf course.
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It did used to be a nine-hole golf course, which is just a great platform to
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work because it had good drainage, had irrigation throughout, obviously.
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One of the negatives was all the npk fertilizer
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and herbicides and pesticides that golf
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courses generally use but you know as a failing golf
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course they weren't spending that much money on those products so luckily we
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didn't have that much rehab to do but we you know we use all organic fertilizers
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so it's all biological and we've
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dumped tons and tons and tons of this property It's really cool to see.
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When we first got here, you dig up the grass and the roots would just be this deep.
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And now you dig up the grass and the roots are like four or five times as deep.
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It's fantastic. It's really good.
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There's worms and fungus everywhere. It's really, really positive to see the
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impact on the soil conditions.
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It is amazing the difference that it makes and how it does regenerate when you
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give it the opportunity to.
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So that's amazing to see that you're seeing those turnarounds. and
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tell me I had a look when I was out there and
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saw your secret blue liquid
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that Warren worked on tell me a
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little bit about the process of how you place
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the ashes in beside the trees yeah
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yeah no it's a good one to talk about you know we've been doing
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so much and some things we've just never shifted and
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I'll be frank the wording we use is actually bad
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say we infuse ashes into a tree it sounds like we have
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some scientific process where we inject it into the
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edge of the tree or something and it's not like that at all you know all the
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science has been done with that painted formula on the day it's actually quite
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a beautiful ritual it's nice to be able to invite families to take part i think
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often in a traditional funeral you're kind of spectators watching a funeral
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director and a celebrant,
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do the funeral for you. And I think this is a really great opportunity to get
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people in, literally get their hands dirty.
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So, you know, the process is, is the day beforehand, our landscaping team digs out a chamber.
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It goes pretty deep, about one and a half metres deep underneath the root ball of the tree.
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So we'll have the white chairs and a table at the set up and there's flowers.
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It's quite lovely. It looks almost like a little wedding, to be honest, for the ceremony.
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But we'll have... Yeah, it's really beautiful. It's quite pretty. It's nice.
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We have paramagnetic soil, which is a mineral compound that buffers the alkalinity of the ash.
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And then we have the blue liquid and some watering can.
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And the soil, that's a beautiful soil, it's been taken from the hole in a tub next door.
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And essentially the family assists in pouring the ash and the paramagnetic soil
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into that chamber that's been pre-dug.
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So they pour that in together and it mixes together while they pour.
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And then the soil is put back into the hole.
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Bluewood is also then poured into the hole as well.
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And during this process, Louise, she's so thoughtful, she puts so much care into every family.
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She actually invites family to write notes.
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We've got very thin biodegradable paper, so they can write a note to that loved one.
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It's a final opportunity to say something. So whether it's.
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I'm so sorry I missed saying this to you, and it's a final opportunity to say
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that, and they place that into the hole, and then the soil goes back in,
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and then actually the grass cut out of the top in a little circle gets put back
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on the very top of the sod,
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and in a couple of weeks you can't tell that anybody's been there. And that's it.
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It's super organic. That's so beautiful. Yeah, and the kids,
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we often have the kids shoveling the soil back in there and getting their hands
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dirty, And it's really a beautiful thing to see.
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And I think having that ability to hands-on offer something to that person that
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you love so much, I think it's a really loved opportunity from family to do
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something themselves, not just rely on a few characters and celebrants.
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They do do a fantastic job, but I think it's really important for people,
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for the family to do something themselves as well, you know.
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Yeah, it's lovely. And I love that note, the writing of the note and putting
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it in the hole and I think that's really beautiful.
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Who did you say was the person responsible for that idea?
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Louise is sort of our in-house planner and she works really closely with families,
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you know, so she'll run the ceremonies.
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She just did the, I think I was mentioning to you today, we had a ceremony,
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a pet dog that passed away.
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She ran that ceremony as well. So she's extremely thoughtful.
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She's, you know, very connected. She holds a deep space for family.
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She means and puts everything into every ceremony that she does.
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So that's just one part of it. She has a really great process that she works.
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So that means you also have places for pets?
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Yeah, so we do have a dedicated pet garden.
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So pets ashes can go through the same treatment process and then they're placed
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underneath a shared garden.
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So there's flowers and trees all in this beautiful garden space, sort of like a pet Eden.
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But then there is also the opportunity for pets to
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be joined with their families within a tree a legacy tree
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and that's what we had today so zuki was
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the dog's name i feel like i'm getting that wrong but i'm sure zuki and
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she was actually the first to go into their oak tree
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but for hazel and glenn
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they both know that they're going to be joining zuki one day and
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i mean we're just having a chat about it it's such a
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beautiful story so zuki actually was the one
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that brought them together so hazel had
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lost her husband her first husband and she was going through the difficult grief
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and her friend said you've got to get a dog you've got to get a dog and she
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said i'm not getting a dog and then before she knew it she had a dog and this
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is so cute but she'd never had dogs before didn't know how to take care of her
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and she still wanted to travel which is why she was sort of pushing back.
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But I think she then started to find places that were dog-friendly and she started
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to do reviews and it became a thing.
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So she would travel around the UK and do reviews of hotels and places that were
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dog-friendly and that became quite a thing that she did.
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And then one day she was going to London for her granddaughter's,
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I think, third birthday and something happened last minute and so her daughter
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said, oh, look, I've got a guy at work who will take care of the dog.
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And this was her, Glenn, her now husband. And so he'd taken care of the dog
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and the dog loved him but never liked any other strangers.
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And that was the start of the relationship. And they said when they got married,
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Zuki was the ring bearer and, you know, this beautiful part of their family.
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And now she's died before either of them, but she's at home in the tree waiting
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for them when their time does come. What a beautiful story.
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That's amazing. And so does that mean multiple people can actually,
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or even generations and pets by the sounds of it, can actually go around the one legacy tree?
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Yeah, absolutely. So we've got trees of different sizes. And when I say sizes,
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it's the space of the area of land they take up, essentially.
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So the largest tree can take, eight people can share it, which is plenty for several generations.
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And in reality, more than eight people can go in the tree as long as it's more
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than seven years apart we just would rather under promise and over deliver because we wouldn't.
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You know, God forbid, you know, let's say it was a medium tree for two people
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and they wanted four for their kids, but they all died in a car accident.
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And we said, well, we have to wait seven years for the next two.
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So, but the reality is, is yes, it's really cool in that way.
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So, you know, our most popular trees are actually a medium and a large.
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So that's two and five, which means it's, you know, either a couple that want
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to share it or a couple that want to plan for their kids to,
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you know, come and join them at some point in the future.
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I mean, obviously, we do have the extra large ones, and they are popular as
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well, but not as popular.
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They're often used, you know, you might have a couple who've got mum and dad's
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ashes, and then they know they've got them, and then they've got kids as well.
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So, they're thinking, just like you said, multi-generational,
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which I think is really great.
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You know, often people, like, really desperate to try to get into so-and-so's
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cemetery because mum and dad are there, but there's no plots left,
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and they might end up paying $20,000, $30,000 for a great plot.
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It's nice to know that you can all actually not just be close but literally
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all creating these seeds and these flowers and the leaves on the tree.
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What a beautiful thing. Lovely. Yeah.
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It's a really lovely, you know, story and such a legacy to leave.
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So tell me, have you, you know, picked your own tree, Luke? I have.
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My tree is up there already. I've been a little bit ostentatious.
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I've got a modern day ficus.
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Up on the hill yeah nice with all the aerial roots that'll come down yeah absolutely
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it's one of my favorite trees so i mean i've got a lot of favorite trees now
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like i used to have a few trees that i liked and now every you know like you
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get so enamored with all these different trees that we see.
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But, yeah, that's the tree I've got. And, you know, so my dad's got his tree
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here and obviously Warren has his tree here.
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You know, it's a central part of the family.
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And tell me, what's the future for Mornington Green? Look, we are growing pretty rapidly.
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One of the things we do here is it's not an accident that when you walked in
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it didn't feel like a cemetery.
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It's not just because of the way it looks, it's the energy that we hold here.
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And one of the ways that we keep this from just being
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like a memorial garden which often
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people expect a memorial garden when they hear of us and it
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isn't the same at all as you would have noticed is we
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have a lot of living events you know so we have
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planting days we have you know christmas in july we
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have all kinds of events throughout the year
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you know daffodil day and this summer
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we're going to be doing again the world's largest sunflower so
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last summer we planted this flower bed
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you would have seen that flower bed it's like 50 meter long and
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we had 3 000 giant russian sunflowers
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this year we're going to widen the sunflower and
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have a full variety of sunflowers all those
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cool you know those orange and black ones and fluffy ones and it's just you
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know all of these different events bring people in to enjoy the beauty of life
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and to just embrace that lovely feeling nature just being in glory you know
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and And so it shifts, it does shift the experience.
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And we have one of the clients that came to Christmas in July, he'd lost a husband.
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And even though having a tree is beautiful, it's still a very sad time in life
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when you've just lost your life partner.
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And she said she came specifically to Christmas in July because she was like,
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it's time, it's been a few weeks, I want to shift this experience now.
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And she had a really lovely time there. She met some other great families that have trees here.
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And she said, that was everything I needed. And now, you know,
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when I come here, I've now got this shift of experience, you know.
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And that's what it's all about, embracing being alive and those living memories,
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not just, you know, being sad about the end.
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So, that's part of it. More and more of that, you know, creating more and more
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events. We want to have art in here.
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Aside from that, the future of us, we are looking to expand.
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So we are looking for places interstate, part of this Living Legacy group.
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And so we're looking for places interstate. We get emails every day.
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You know, when are you coming to Queensland? When are you going to be in South Australia?
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So we want to find another place so we can service more Australians and give
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them a better experience.
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We've started the next garden. which
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i think is going to be called lumia garden from the
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indigenous word from the local mob
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and i think it means to rest rest in
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place yeah it's nice i think it's important to pay homage to the traditional
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custodians of the land and it's nice that it sort of works in with what we do
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and 60 of that garden now so that'll be released once this garden's full or
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at least close to I got the community planned to go days,
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but we are establishing now a volunteer gardening group.
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One of the things we realized, it is like, we've noticed just how lonely people are.
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Some of the more elderly clients are and
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they're really often quite desperate to have purpose
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and to be a part of something and so by
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creating this volunteer group that can regularly come out
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we put on the IT biscuits and obviously we have
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all the tools we purchase the tools and the plants and
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the bulbs and whatnot but what a nice thing
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for them to be able to come in be a part of a group
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and have friends and have a purpose but they're also helping out
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you know they know at the back of their minds the flowers they
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plant are gonna potentially greet
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somebody on a really crappy day and give them a
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smile right and just see like right now we've got
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tulips popping up from one of our previous planting days
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that the community helped plant and it's so beautiful
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you can't help but get a little bit of a grin when you see them pop up
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so more of that more more community engagement
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more events you know obviously expanding
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the stages as each garden grows through and obviously
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as i said like just trying to find other little ways
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to create magic in these ceremonies hold the space better and allow people to
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connect in a more meaningful way yeah that's really beautiful luke and yeah
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i really commend you on what you and warren and your team have done because
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it's a very beautiful space to be around in and.
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Yeah, you don't even really notice that it's part of a legacy garden and,
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yeah, it's just a really beautiful space with beautiful growing trees. Thank you, Catherine.
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Well, thank you so much for your time today, Luke. I really appreciate it. Thank you so much.
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